Harper Perennial; 354 pages; $14.99 paperback
This is not a review, just a write-up:I had never heard of Malena Watrous' "If you Follow Me" when it came to me by mail from Harpers Perennial, but its opening pages which contained a very sweet letter addressed to Malena Watrous by her Japanese minder in his charming Japlish seduced me and I knew I wanted to read more.
"Dear Miss Marina how are you? I'm fine thank you. A reason for this letter is: recently you attempt to throw away battery and jar and some kind of mushroom spaghetti and so forth, all together in one bin. Please don't try "it wasn't me." We Japanese seldom eat Gorgonzola cheese!"
I searched the net for reviews (something I don't usually do before I read a book) and fund them uniformly positive so decided to give it a whirl and before I knew it I had breezed through 150 pages in a single sitting (almost unheard of for me these days!).
Here's a tiny synopsis so you get a feel for what the book's about:
Hoping to outpace her grief in the wake of her father's suicide, Marina has come to the small, rural Japanese town of Shika to teach English for a year. But in Japan, as she soon discovers, you can never really throw away your past . . . or anything else, for that matter.
"If You Follow Me" is at once a fish-out-of-water tale, a dark comedy of manners, and a strange kind of love story. Alive with vibrant and unforgettable characters--from an ambitious town matchmaker to a high school student-cum-rap artist wannabe with an addiction to self-tanning lotion--it guides readers over cultural bridges even as it celebrates the awkward, unlikely triumph of the human spirit.
The book is everything the publishers say it is and more. It is semi-autobiographical, a love story, and a story about loss and learning to cope, but it also reads as an expat journal detailing interesting and obscure details about Japan and the Japanese that only someone living there would pick up on. For instance, the Japanese fascination with rules. You get the feeling that Japan is a very law-abiding country and they have little or no patience with foreigners who will not follow rules. It took several epistolary rebukes from Marena's fellow “sensei,” or teacher, Hiroshi, who has been assigned to supervise her presence in Shika, about the "gomi rules" (garbage rules) before she caught on and started following .
What did I like about the book? The honesty. I felt like Watrous never tried to cover up her faux-pas or faults. She was the tall, bumbling foreigner in Japan, who could only speak a smattering of Japanese, and she never tried to be anything else. She has also has a wacky and dry sense of humor and is game to poke fun at herself as she stumbles through life in Japan, but it's not a "laugh-a-minute" thing like we are used to seeing with travel writers like Bill Bryson, J. Proost. Also, she really does want to teach the kids English but her progress is marred by the fact that she doesn't always "get" the culture, or what is or isn't acceptable in Japanese society. Also, there is a kid (a previous hikikomori or a shut-in) who seems intent on sabotaging her time in Japan, not to mention the boys she teaches in the technical college who, because they don't see their futures improving with English, refuse to cooperate during the lessons. They sit half-naked in class and their previous teacher left on account of sexual harassment. This brings up quite an interesting point actually....while Japan may be a country of social conformity, there are the exceptions or rebels who truly stick out like sore thumbs.
Also, while all of this is going on, Watrous is trying to cope with personal losses on two fronts: the suicide of her father and the break up of her relationship with Carolyn, the girl she followed to Japan. However, the book is not without its warm and funny moments like the gatherings at the "Hottorondo" or hot springs where colleagues gather and chat naked around the hot tubs. I have heard this is similar in Finland that has a sauna culture, but as a Indo-westerner, I am not sure I could frolic around naked with my colleagues and then work with them the next day!
Then there is the Japanese wedding she goes to: unlike most weddings which are noisy, joyous occasions, Japanese weddings are sober and reflective in comparison. Malena is given a long oral list of rules to follow while she is at the wedding, but, ofcourse, not belonging to the culture she finds it impossible to follow the rules and just has fun instead!
She also touches on a lot of issues currently affecting Japanese society....like the high rate of abortions, the shut-ins and issues that are peculiar to Shika only. Shika being a small town ......... the city is constantly losing its young people to bigger cities for work, also, Shika is the site of two nuclear power plants
This book has been reviewed by many bloggers before me and I give you some links (below). As you will see, some have loved the book and others haven't. Read it and decide for yourself. I would say it would be an immensely helpful read for anyone interested in learning about Japan and especially for someone who would like to go teach there.
Malena’s TLC Book Tours TOUR STOPSTuesday, March 9th: Dolce Bellezza
Wednesday, March 10th: Take Me Away (and interview)
Thursday, March 11th: Life in the Thumb
Monday, March 15th: Raging Bibliomania
Wednesday, March 17th: Stephanie’s Written Word
Thursday, March 18th: nomadreader
Monday, March 22nd: Books and Movies
Wednesday, March 24th: Book Chatter
Tuesday, March 30th: BookNAround
Wednesday, March 31st: Bookstack